Is it real that most women had this “Women instinct”? Is like a big question to me, is it real that we as a women has this special power so called instinct especially on love?
Somehow, is fun seeing how men and women interact and there are so many types of partners out there with difference attitudes, characteristic, believes, etc. I just wonder sometimes at, what it is we each value most in a partner for ourselves.
When a man makes a move, the floor vibes and the woman kinda sense it in a way knowing the mouse aka the man is trying to make a move.. Back in the days before women worked and could be “equal” to a man, women sought out The Alpha Male or Chinese say “大男人”. Or so the science says. And we women still ironically go for that guy.
Or do we? If we don't there is a reason.
Alpha males are usually very confident guys, the leaders, the one that walks in a room and acts like he owns it. But not cocky bullshit types, seriously strong types that after you talk to them you can sense are actually smart and on the ball. Most men think they are Alpha Males, but in truth most are just putting on the ritz of one, and once you get them stripped of their game, they become transparent. There are few true Alpha Males. Specially now in this modern age where we have made men act more like women.
But I have to say I am far more fascinated by The Alpha Female. Being one myself (hahaha).
I usually feel like I am the control freak. I am annoyed by most of the world, it moves too slow for me. I am always ready to go with the witty comments and ready for verbal combat. My mind is quick. Sigh, which makes me have difficulties in communicating with my husband sometimes.. cause I found out he is a bit sloooww…. Or pretend to be one... heheh..
I like to pay my own way, that way I'll never owe you anything.
I am a very typical woman and I always like men chasing after me, not the other way round, which is why I think flowers and candy are cliché. This I can’t argue with my husband, from the beginning he knows me well.. if you want to really impress me, open your heart, bare your soul, do something original and deep, well thought out and wow me. Well, of course, my husband didn’t do something I mentioned above.. at least is original.. we started off by writing, then poems!.. wahhahahha.. then the best part is, he bought an air ticket for me to fly over to Australia to meet up with him!..oh, this is so romantic!.. just bared in mind, he has not buy me flower nor candy!...
I never been too many dates.. before my husband, I have only dated 3 guys with a very short period of time. To all surprise, no sex, no kissing, nothing but two people getting to hang out and get to know one another, that’s all. Again, came in the women instinct, you will know immediately whether that particular man is right for you. Few just don’t click!..
Anyway, in the end, all I want is true love.
I believe in love. I think it is possible to find a perfect soul mate and find that perfect connection. I think it is possible, but like I said too many times all the other crap gets in the way.
Somehow, is fun seeing how men and women interact and there are so many types of partners out there with difference attitudes, characteristic, believes, etc. I just wonder sometimes at, what it is we each value most in a partner for ourselves.
When a man makes a move, the floor vibes and the woman kinda sense it in a way knowing the mouse aka the man is trying to make a move.. Back in the days before women worked and could be “equal” to a man, women sought out The Alpha Male or Chinese say “大男人”. Or so the science says. And we women still ironically go for that guy.
Or do we? If we don't there is a reason.
Alpha males are usually very confident guys, the leaders, the one that walks in a room and acts like he owns it. But not cocky bullshit types, seriously strong types that after you talk to them you can sense are actually smart and on the ball. Most men think they are Alpha Males, but in truth most are just putting on the ritz of one, and once you get them stripped of their game, they become transparent. There are few true Alpha Males. Specially now in this modern age where we have made men act more like women.
But I have to say I am far more fascinated by The Alpha Female. Being one myself (hahaha).
I usually feel like I am the control freak. I am annoyed by most of the world, it moves too slow for me. I am always ready to go with the witty comments and ready for verbal combat. My mind is quick. Sigh, which makes me have difficulties in communicating with my husband sometimes.. cause I found out he is a bit sloooww…. Or pretend to be one... heheh..
I like to pay my own way, that way I'll never owe you anything.
I am a very typical woman and I always like men chasing after me, not the other way round, which is why I think flowers and candy are cliché. This I can’t argue with my husband, from the beginning he knows me well.. if you want to really impress me, open your heart, bare your soul, do something original and deep, well thought out and wow me. Well, of course, my husband didn’t do something I mentioned above.. at least is original.. we started off by writing, then poems!.. wahhahahha.. then the best part is, he bought an air ticket for me to fly over to Australia to meet up with him!..oh, this is so romantic!.. just bared in mind, he has not buy me flower nor candy!...
I never been too many dates.. before my husband, I have only dated 3 guys with a very short period of time. To all surprise, no sex, no kissing, nothing but two people getting to hang out and get to know one another, that’s all. Again, came in the women instinct, you will know immediately whether that particular man is right for you. Few just don’t click!..
Anyway, in the end, all I want is true love.
I believe in love. I think it is possible to find a perfect soul mate and find that perfect connection. I think it is possible, but like I said too many times all the other crap gets in the way.
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