28 February 2011 (Monday)

28 February 2011 is gonna be a special date in my calendar from now on..

The date to remember and reminder to myself that IF i ever to fall in love again.. I will not step myself into any registrar or temple or whatever place.. to raise my hand and give my vow that i will love and spend my life with that man.... let's us keep our vow at that moment in our heart

Today.. when i was at court sitting and waiting for my turn (am at no. 35 out of dunno many hundreds).. am listening to one by one couple.. agreeing to the term that their lawyer have read out and later the judge announced that the divorce has been accepted and marriage will be dissolved in 3 months time.

Those without children and no assets, are even easier.. the hearing is just less than a minute.. yeah, believed me!.. just less than a minute. But have that couple thought of.. in order for them to get to know each other and to the point of getting married.. how long does it takes... and compare to that 1 minute.. everything that been thru while they are together is all gone.. Poof!.. like a magic wand.. cinderalla turned back to her own ragged clothes..

Some was asking for the immediate effect without period of 3 months. One reason that makes me laughed... that man wanted to remarried in next 2 months time..

Those with children and assets does not takes long hour either.. it only takes not more than 3-5 minutes.. The lawyer will read out the terms agreed by both.. and once both nodded their head with agreement to the terms.. the judge will announce the marriage has been dissolved and will commence in 3 months time..

While i was sitting and waiting for my turn... surprisingly, i did not flash back those memories that i had with him.. in fact, i felt all these are jokes.. and then i felt heavy... i don't want to go thru divorce! I began to fantasize some scenes in my head.. Should i stand in front of the judge and just collapse on the floor.. pretending that i fainted? and escape the whole thing?.. hahahahah... or should i raise my hand and make an objection!.. OR should i slap that man on his face for making my life so miserable now?...

Well.. luckily i collected back my sanity.. hahhah... He is not meant for me!.. He does not love me that much.. He is not worth for my love...

So.. i am considered officially DIVORCED now.. 28 Feb 2011...

even though, yes, you still need to send the court order to the malaysian registrar at putrajaya to get our status update.. but now that the Judge has ordered.. YES!.. am no longer married.