Back last 2 weeks, i had decided to get my will written since i am a single mother now..
But what strikes me was when i am suppose to put in the Guardian name for my son.. Seems like i have no one to put in.. the only person that i am thinking of is my aunt lye peng who is not married, however, with her age, there is still this questions mark '?' in my mind..
My parents will be too old to be a guardian, however, i will still need to put at least 2 guardian name, one is the principal and one is the substitute..
Then came .. which is impossible one.. the father of my son.
Does he still earn my trust to him to take care of my son?? ... NO
Does he still earn my relief to him to confidently says he will take up the responsibilities to be a father of his own son?? ...... NO
I think i don't have to go any further, if the above 2 did not even fit him.. i shouldn't even have a 2nd thought about putting his name as a Guardian..
Sigh... something to give a pond about.. if i were to give a thinker to the above meaning i have no other choices... I must have a peace of mind and carefully analyse what is right..
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